Welcome to the "Urban Plant & Garden Deck" by L.A.Deck: Here you will find images of plants in my small patio garden and in my home, along with tips on successes and failures of their care. You will also find notes and essays on the symbolism of plants and their links to history. I am inspired by farmers in my family, including my maternal grandmother Olive who has lived, worked, loved & raised children, animals & plants, in the beautiful Vermont countryside her entire life. Plants have been tended to at every home I have had and continue to nurture me with better air quality, and a sense of connection to natural elements, even now while I reside in the vastly populated urban setting of Los Angeles. This is my way to honor the roots that help keep me connected to my ideals, dreams & loves.
Showing posts with label florigraphy. Show all posts
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Wednesday, March 16, 2011

Geraniums and war


Geranium

I rescued this potted pink geranium from an outdoor staircase at my work where it had been neglected. The plant had grown such long roots, that they were spilling out of the water drainage hole at the bottom of its ceramic pot. The flower has come back to life during the past month perched on my balcony ledge where it gets good afternoon sun. It's dried up stalks are renewed with new leaves, and blossoms that just appeared this week.

Symbolism
I haven't found much on the symbolism of pink geraniums in particular, but pink flowers generally symbolize a sweet kindness, and often nostalgia to childhood. However, perhaps you've had a glimpse of a supposed darker side of flower-gifting (see my post on florigraphy.)

Instead of playful childhood happiness, pink is also rumored to symbolize doubt. For example, I'm sending you pink flowers because "I don't get you. Why are you acting this way?" or "I'm not sure this is working, but I'm not ready to send the yellow flowers yet". (yellow being rumored to symbolize that the sender actually loves someone else - see my florigraphy post for amusing notes on this subject).

Back to geraniums. Like I mentioned, I couldn't find much about pink geraniums in particular but did get interested in red geraniums, which I read somewhere might not even be in the geranium family proper, as true geraniums are usually blue, but the red ones have become the most iconic 'geranium' there is.

I found the red geranium has ties to 2 post-war times - the War of 1812 and post-World War II. In regards to the War of 1812, there is a battlefield, Lundy's Lane Battlefield, in Niagra Falls that was thought to be the bloodiest one of this war. Years later, a teacher named Ruth Redmond saw the town of Niagra Falls coming up as a tourist destination so she started buying parts of the battlefield land to save it from urban development. Before she died she gave the land to the city in agreement that they would turn it into a historical park to commemorate the men who lost their lives there. Sources vary, but apparently Ms. Redmond loved the red geranium and had planted it all over the Lundy Lane land. After her death a campaign was led to make the flower the official symbol of the War of 1812; it's not clear whether this is official, but residents of the town still plant red geraniums in the park in honor of the lives lost.

The red geranium also has a place in the post-war WWII era in the 1950's idealized American home. The flower was affordable by the middle class, and its bright color seemed to represent a positive new outlook. Many people who grew up in this time relate red geraniums to a fond memory of home because they were so prevalent in and outside residences.

You can see the potted geraniums on the windowsill in this 1950's ad for a new sink (the yellow sink will complement the red flower), linking the plant to the idealized housewife who gazes out the window at her beautiful family and lifts a heeled foot in merry playful contentment at her perfect life. The flower seem the cherry-on-top to the depiction of the 'perfect' home of this era. The red geranium carried symbolism of change, stability, idealism and happiness that people of this time were seeking.

Red geraniums also appear in a literary favorite of mine, Harper Lee's "How to Kill a Mockingbird", as a symbol that all humankind have good somewhere in them, even the most corrupt. The beautiful flowers are tended to outside a decrepit home by Mayella Ewell, the daughter of a corrupt man who wrongly accuses a black man of raping her. Atticus Finch is the single dad lawyer, with a strong heart and moral value, who defends Tom Robinson in court, and tries to teach his 2 children the lessons of the red geranium - good exists in even the most corrupt of situations and people.

Now, if only the solution to finding my 'perfect' life was as easy as tying on an apron and getting started on growing some red geraniums!


Friday, March 11, 2011

Florigraphy: love and cruelty

We've probably all heard the basics about what different colored flowers signify; red is for passion and love, white is for purity, pink is for sweet youthful admiration and yellow for friendship. I found some postings on florigraphy that include the crueler side of flower-gifting symbolism, that I found excitingly devious, so let me share.

Florigraphy comes from the Victorian era, and was a flower-gifting tradition that evolved for the need of communicating messages that could not be spoken directly. We mostly hear of the messages of love sent from a suitor to his object of affection, however, the more interesting part is what flowers can say that might not be so flattering.

I am not totally confident of the accuracy of this darker side of florigraphy, but I found similar info in multiple sources, so here's a glimpse. Yellow roses are rumored by some to mean that the sender actually loves someone else. What a surprise, beautiful flowers delivered to a young mistress' door, only for her to discover that the gift actually means something heartbreaking, assuming the young lady admired the sender.

In this case, the sender in question found the most passive agressive means to say "I don't love you" - wouldn't you much rather hear it from the person privately rather than have it announced at your door, while the neighbors saw the dreaded yellow bouquet coming down the street headed for some unlucky lass. What does a young lady do with this bouquet? Does the family offer to put the flowers in a vase on the table, after watching her eyes fill with tears at the unfortunate message, because it is beautiful and expensive after all?

I suppose this guy thought it was a gentle way to send the message - "well, I don't love ya but here's something nice to look at while you get over it." Idiot.

Instead of playful childhood happiness, pink roses are rumored on the flip side to symbolize doubt. For example, I'm sending you pink flowers because "I don't get you. Why are you acting this way?" or "I'm not sure this is working, but I'm not ready to send the yellow flowers yet".

My two favorite colors of roses are yellow and white. Yellow roses are described above, and I am amused to know that white roses are rumored to symbolize rejection by a sender - "I just don't love ya baby" or "Frankly, I just don't give a damn." Regardless, I stick to my flower color preferences. The whole flower gifting thing is a little overdone in my opinion; I tend to feel bittersweet about receiving a gift of cut stems that will wilt and die, much preferring a potted plant.

If we've taken any cynical notes on the destruction due to jealousy, especially from Wuthering Heights or Shakespeare's plays, perhaps this dark side of florigraphy is all just a mindgame made up by lonely and jealous Victorian gals who never received any flowers and wanted to make other girls second guess the true meaning of their bountiful floral gifts.